No matter where we are in our lives, we often talk about the importance of having it all: an idea that conjures images of a happy couple, two kids, a white picket fence, the family SUV and a dog. There's no stress in this ideal world. We're all doing the things we love, in the best shape of our lives and happy. But for those of us working and trying to raise kids, having it all can sometimes feel out of reach. And then, we're stuck thinking now what.